Make More Time for Achieving Your Goals and Enjoying Life
By: Elizabeth Neal | MyAmazingContent.com
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How many times have you caught yourself saying you do not have enough time or there isn’t enough time in the day? Is this really the truth?
There are many books on the subject of how to be “highly successful” as well as how to “achieve happiness”.
Many people may seem like life has two options:
1. Achieving goals
2. Enjoying life
Neither one of these seem as if they are one hundred percent fulfilled. There seems to be a broad spectrum on the scale of go-getters and over-achievers to those who slack in all departments.
If you’re like most people, you probably think these notions are for
other people, who are super extraordinary, and you feel that you do not fall
into the mix. Today, the demands of work, career, education, family, and
homeownership seem to take priority over enjoyment.
Relaxation time may be scheduled as a once-a-month outing or even an annual vacation. However, even those pleasures seem to be filled with work.
There is planning and scheduling. And of course not enough time – or so it seems – for down time. Are you waiting for retirement to enjoy your life? Many workers feel as though they are waiting for life to happen rather than creating the life they really want.
Do you wish you had more time to achieve goals and even more time to enjoy life? If so, you are certainly not alone. Here is a special report on how to prioritize your life and make more time for both achieving your goals and enjoying your life.
If you think about life being balanced, you might envision a (seesaw) in the position of being directly balanced in the middle with no ups, no downs, and simply managing to stay in the middle. This is a picture perfect of balance!
Essentially, life doesn’t work this way. There are many ups and there are most certainly downs. Sometimes you might feel as though you just want to jump off the seesaw and lay on the ground for a little while just to gain your equilibrium back.
Let’s take a look at balance. What does it mean to be in balance, if life
has its difficulties? When you are in balance, you maintain your equilibrium
while life’s ups and downs come and go.
Of course, you go through the various emotions as circumstances both good and not so good work their way through your life.
However, being in balance means you get to choose how long you stay in the down position. Of course, realistically, you can not always stay up on the seesaw of life. However, you can choose how you feel and what your action steps are going to be while you’re down. Doesn’t this make sense to you?
Being in balance means intentionally, no matter how hard it is, choosing how you will show up under any given circumstance.
How do you really achieve balance?
You can achieve balance in several ways:
- Feel your emotions and move quickly through them – it’s perfectly fine to become emotional when the roller coaster of life gets too fast and too furious. Feel what you need to feel but move quickly on to the next step.
The next step after feeling is action. If something doesn’t feel right, chances are it isn’t right. The next logical step to create more space in your life for fulfilling goals and time for enjoyment is action.
- Choose an action step to recreate the scene. If you have lost a job, fire up your resume. If your home needs a repair, start asking family and friends for referrals on contractors.
Don’t just sit and stew about what happened, but take the appropriate time to recreate what happens next. The faster you barrel through the downs of life, the sooner you can get back up.
It’s simply a matter of gravity. Put those feet on the floor and bounce that seesaw up once again.
- Do not regurgitate facts and stories repeatedly – the more you talk about what happened, how unfair it was, and what a nuisance it was, the more energy you expend.
This energy could be used for better purposes. You can create an answer to the problem and you can spend that much more time enjoying your life, setting and achieving goals.
- If you find yourself faced with a problem, take the energy needed to create some sort of answer rather than dwell only on the issues at hand. We all use energy to get through the day’s events.
However, we get to choose how much energy is spent on each project. Look at your life, what is going well? Do you have an amazing successful career or education? If so, then you might be spending all of your time and energy in that one area and the rest of your life is completely out of balance from family to personal relationships.
Sometimes, the unexpected can throw you off. How do you hit the reset
button when life throws you a curve and knocks you off balance? Sometimes
truthfully, no matter how hard we try not to dwell on something, we fall back
into patterns of thinking and talking about something.
What do you do when you can’t get the needle off the record and you are stuck? Call a friend and get an accountability partner.
Partner With Someone You Trust
Ask someone you know to reroute you when you are stuck. Ask them not to let you dwell on what happened or what you cannot control and help you return to present moment status.
Sometimes all it takes is someone to remind you that, in this present moment, you are fine and all is well. You might not have the answers to what will happen in the future, but anything is possible.
Make a choice and make some change. If you really want to achieve your goals and enjoy life to the fullest, you must choose where your energy will go. Make a choice that seems best in the moment and follow through with it.
If it doesn’t work out, don’t hold yourself to task because in human
nature, there is always a choice. You may not like all the choices, but staying
stuck will not ever work.
Make a choice with the information you have in front of you and take action steps toward that choice.
You will find yourself balanced, until a more optimal choice presents itself. At least you are not standing still and you are taking action steps toward a solution as compared to constantly focusing on or talking about the problem.
It is okay to be out of balance. Sometimes there’s a big project at work
or a special event at home. You are out of balance because that event or
project takes priority.
A special event, like a wedding for example, takes a lot of time, but it will eventually be over. A home repair or project will come to completion, as well.
An annual meeting at work will soon be nothing but a distant memory. Sometimes it’s your season to work like a dog to get the job done.
It’s okay to be out of balance for a while on occasion. Remember, however, it only takes a few minutes every day to get closer toward a goal. One small action step is better than no action at all.
It’s perfectly fine to be out of balance due to a special meeting or
function or life event. You can still create a daily habit of taking one small
actionable step toward a personal goal, dream, or desire.
A goal without a plan is only a dream!
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